Saturday, March 21, 2026

Hospitality

Saturday, March 14, 2016
We paid a visit to my brother at the JFK University Medical Center in Edison, New Jersey. He is spending a short amount of time there. While there, I inquired whether they plan to add Trump’s name to the facility. As of now, not.

Since we were in the vicinity, madam and I had lunch at Seasons 52, 217 Lafayette Avenue, Edison, New Jersey. It’s a fine example of a suburban restaurant, large tables well separated, ample parking, perky service and consistently good food. My young bride had the tuna crunch salad, seared ahi tuna on crisp greens, crunchy almonds, fresh mango, and crunchy wonton strips, tossed in a zesty sesame-ginger dressing, pronouncing it probably the best salad she has ever had ($22). I had the crab cake sandwich with a delicious side salad ($18). The server refilled my Coke Zero without being asked.
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If the threat of a nuclear Iran keeps you up at night, consider this:

Sunday, March 15, 2026
This afternoon, with seemingly every Jewish grandparent in the Tristate area, we went to Lincoln Center to hear the annual concert of HaZamir: The International Jewish Teen Choir. Unfortunately, the 100-person Israeli contingent could not leave their country, but the organizers effectively worked around their absence. The music is primarily modern, non-liturgical Hebrew. #1 grandson, a Teen Leader of the group, introduced one of the numbers, an additional source of pride for us. Before the concert, other family members were treated to bagels and lox at Palazzo di Gotthelf.
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Tim Wu, Columbia University law professor, makes the interesting argument social media appears to be “a defective, hazardous product” and should be treated that way at law.  https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/14/opinion/social-media-trial-addiction.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share

Monday, March 16, 2026
Stony Brook Steve and I had lunch at the Fairway Cafe, 2131 Broadway, which allowed us to shop at the market below after we finished eating. It is rebuilding its restaurant business after the long Covid shutdown with good food at reasonable prices. I had a very large bacon, egg and cheese sandwich on a (Kaiser) roll, probably containing three scrambled eggs ($10). Notable were the home fried potatoes, usually dry and tough after sitting on the grill for a week. These were plump, freshly cooked, lightly dusted with paprika and salt, very tasty.

Tuesday, March 17, 2026
Boy, was I wrong. I gave myself 30 minutes to get from West 79th Street and Amsterdam Avenue (the equivalent of Tenth Avenue) to East 79th Street and Second Avenue for my physical therapy appointment, twice as much as usual because of the St. Patrick's Day Parade. Well, an hour and a half later, I had reached Fifth Avenue and East 86th Street, where I accepted defeat and returned home. 

Wednesday, March 18,2026
Michael Ratner and I had lunch at Peng’s Noodle Folk, 1016 Lexington Avenue, a joint previously unknown to us. The attractive non-ethnic decor was predominantly wood and terra cotta. The 60 or so seats at eleven tables were occupied most of the time and we will certainly return to them in the future. It's a good option in a neighborhood sorely lacking in them. I had Soy Sauce Beef Stew Noodle, a big bowl of hot soup loaded with noodles, beef, kale, corn kernels, scallion, red radish and green soybeans ($22.75). Michael had essentially the same dish in a dry version ($21.75). 
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While Peng's offers more than noodles, I limited my intake, because of dinner plans. My young bride and I were joining Elaine and Caring Ken Klein to celebrate Ken's birthday at Kebab aur Sharab, 247 West 72nd Street, an Indian restaurant which translates dubiously as "kebobs and alcohol." We have eaten there before and it has received a favorable mention in the Michelin guide. It was packed soon after we arrived. With all that, I was disappointed in the food, certainly not the company. Although many of their dishes stray from the conventional, their overriding characteristics seems to be overpricing and flavors better on paper than on the plate.

We shared two appetizers, Aloo Tiki Chat, crispy patties with chickpeas, mint and tamarind chutney ($19), and Unlce Chips Aloo Chat, crisp potatoes, clarified butter, tamarind, Sev (crunchy noodles) and chutney ($18). My three companions shared two vegetarian dishes; I had butter chicken, cooked in tomato and cashew curry with a swirl of cream ($30). 

Thursday, March 19, 2026
Fordham University, a Jesuit institution, has a strong Jewish studies program, directed by Magda Teter, an outstanding scholar. Tonight, they presented Anita Norich, Professor Emerita of Judaic Studies at University of Michigan, giving an engaging talk on “Yiddish Disputes” in and about the language. She also happens to be the sister of our friend Sam Norich, former director at the YIVO Institute for Jewish Research and retired editor-in-chief at The Forward. Professor Norich made the interesting observation that Hebrew, because of its historic roots, is considered patriarchal while Yiddish, associated with the street and the home, is considered feminine.

Friday, March 20,2026
Although I am gainfully retired, I occasionally receive job offers. One just came by e-mail that intrigued me, obviously a good fit, because of how personally it was addressed: ge8pw9en7ns4bg5@icloud.net.
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Still happy?





Saturday, March 14, 2026

Is It Too Much To Ask?

Saturday, March 7, 2026
I just received notice that the CCNY Alumni Association is sponsoring a trip to Morocco in October. That permits me to revive my story about Morocco in 2019, actually about leaving Morocco, actually about my luggage leaving Morocco. We departed from Casablanca on a flight codeshared by Air France and Delta, changing planes in Paris.

We arrived in JFK safe and sound except for my big, olive green bag. I reported it missing at the airport and then daily on phone calls to Air France and Delta. Each day for two weeks, I was promised that my bag sitting in Paris would be on the next flight to New York. Meanwhile, I provided an inventory of its contents to the best of my recollection. Although I asked for nothing more than the return of my belongings — a pair of shoes, dirty laundry, a sweatshirt — I was promptly sent a check for $600. 

Then, after two weeks, I got a text message from a Delta employee at the Punta Cana International Airport in the Dominican Republic. She was staring at my bag which had been sitting there for days. On her own initiative, she contacted me from the detailed information on my luggage tag. Casablanca-Paris-Punta Cana. The bag got to New York the next day. The laundry was intact, the shoes and some miscellaneous items missing. 
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I looked up "tutting" after reading it in a newspaper article about dancing. It's a dance style modeled after the angular moves associated with ancient Egyptians like Steve Martin. That made sort of sense, although I first thought of "tut, tut" as a warning . . . 
[Hold on, I just jumped up to answer the phone. It was my daily call from Justin Romano about my non-existent business loan application for $156,000. Justin has replaced a sweet-sounding lady with the same message who had been trying to contact me for weeks. Justin and the lady also had in common a sort of teletransporting; each telephone call came from a different location, such as Hollywood, Florida, Summer Shade, Kentucky and Halethorpe, Maryland. Even when the originating point changed, eerily the amount that I wasn't asking for remained the same. I think that I should change my voicemail greeting: "I'm not in. Just send me the $156,000."] As I was saying, "a warning about bad behavior."

Sunday, March 8, 2026
I pass Bareburger, 2233 Broadway, once a week or more. Outside is a sign promoting its “14-hour smoked pastrami”. So, I’m wondering, how special is that? The more hours the better? How many hours would be too many hours? How am I supposed to know? Is there a secret number Jews are supposed to know?

Monday, March 9, 2026
As I have gotten older, I know more about some things and less about others. Here are a couple of items that challenge me. A male author who is about to publish a Judy Blume biography was told by a female friend “Mark, I love you, but that has to be written by a woman.” 

Also, a bride-to-be “who is currently planning a wedding in Italy for next year, posted a video on Instagram in which she described in detail her strict requirements for her bridesmaids, including, in addition to wearing the typical matching dresses and hairstyles, adhering to a pre-wedding diet and not being pregnant.” 

Tuesday, March 10, 2026
“[T]he Trump administration has started to loosen restrictions on Russian oil exports in a bid to temper rising gas prices.” 

So, Iranians are dying, Israelis are dying, Americans are dying, Lebanese are dying and Russia benefits.
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There was a ray of sunshine tonight, actually several. Sam Fuchs, Navy veteran, joined me at Madison Square Garden to see the Rangers play hockey. We had passes to the Chase Lounge, free food and drinks from a cornerstone of capitalism. The menu tonight was potato salad, sliced brisket sliders, baked mac and cheese and BBQ Brushed Bacon Cheddar Bratwurst with Frizzled Onions. Portions are small, but returns to the buffet are unlimited as is the Diet Pepsi. Best of all, 4-0 Rangers.

Wednesday, March 11, 2026
I went to midtown to make a deposit in my periodontist’s grandchildren’s trust fund. It gave rise to three serendipitous encounters. I stopped for lunch at a Halal cart on Pershing Square for a platter of chicken and mystery meat over rice with salad and a 20 oz. bottle of Coke Zero ($15). I am an equal opportunity eater, after all.

The man serving up the food told me that, until he came from Egypt to America one year ago, he had never seen snow. He still finds it intimidating (Serendipity 1). I sat at a table outdoors and got into conversation with Harrison, a techie working for Bloomberg the company, not the man. He, Harrison not Bloomberg, comes from Seattle and got an engineering degree from USC. He so impressed me that I thought he was from Brooklyn, went to Stuyvesant and CCNY (Serendipity 2). 

On the Madison Avenue bus, I met the lovely and charming Pearl S., whom I haven’t seen for years. I was so excited that I got off at the wrong stop (Serendipity 3). 
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Madam Honey Darling and I went to the theater tonight to see a preview performance of Death of a Salesman, starring Nathan Lane and Laurie Metcalfe. They both gave excellent performances to a full and enthusiastic audience. Biff and Happy, the two Loman sons, I had a problem with. I’m not sure if I was dissatisfied with the writing, the casting or the performances. In any case, they fell short.

Friday, March 13, 2026
A great big Thank You to Mossad Moshe for bringing our household into the 21st century.
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The Upper West Side’s Power Couple wishes Oakland’s Power Couple Happy Tenth Anniversary.
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Hit the road, Jack?
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In conclusion:


Saturday, March 7, 2026

War, What Is It Good For?

Saturday, February 28, 2026
Where to begin? Bombing Iran to destroy what the president insisted we previously obliterated? It sickens me to say it, but Israel has become a bad place. The Trump-Netanyahu alliance is truly an axis of evil. While the preemptive attack on Iran may lead to regime change there, what will it take to have regime change in Israel? Our midterm elections in November will only throw some sand in the gears of authoritarianism, at best.

The Iranian government has apparently been killing its citizens promiscuously. “Eyewitnesses say government forces have begun opening fire, apparently with automatic weapons and at times seemingly indiscriminately, on unarmed protesters.” https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/13/world/middleeast/iran-protester-deaths.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share

Trump and Netanyahu, however, thought that the killings were not going fast enough, so they put on their warmonger pants. Frustrated by being denied the Nobel Peace Prize, Trump warned that U.S. strikes “will continue, uninterrupted throughout the week or, as long as necessary to achieve our objective of PEACE THROUGHOUT THE MIDDLE EAST AND, INDEED, THE WORLD!”https://thehill.com/homenews/administration/5760879-operation-epic-fury-iran/amp/

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We ended this difficult day with an evening of peace and friendship, Havdalah services at the home of Rachel S., marking the end of the Sabbath. All five senses are engaged in Havdalah with the use of a cup of wine, a candle and a container of aromatic spices — feel the cup, smell the spices, see the flame of the candle, hear the blessings and taste the wine. 
 
Sunday, Match 1, 2026
For some people, domestic peace is as remote as international peace. “Taliban authorities in Afghanistan have issued a draconian decree that . . . allows men to beat their wives so long as they don’t break bones or leave visible, lasting wounds.” https://www.cnn.com/2026/03/01/asia/taliban-afghanistan-domestic-violence-legal?cid=ios_app

If anything, moral relativism has met its boundaries.

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Changing its name from Facebook to Meta cost millions of dollars, including paying a bank to drop Meta from its name. https://hypebeast.com/2021/12/facebook-owner-meta-name-rights-60-million-usd-acquisition

However, those clever devils paid for it many times over by moving profits from countries like the United States, Japan, France and Germany to Dublin, Ireland. From there, they moved profits to an additional subsidiary that, for tax purposes, claimed to be managed in the Cayman Islands, which has no corporate income tax. The savings — $15 billion. That’s right, with a B.    https://www.nytimes.com/video/business/100000010723457/why-the-irs-wants-15-billion-from-meta.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share

 

Monday, March 2, 2026
In the great American tradition of kicking a man when he is down: “Tens of thousands of Americans are losing access to treatment for H.I.V. as nearly 20 states impose restrictions on assistance programs and several others weigh such changes.”  https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/02/health/hiv-drugs-ryan-white.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share

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Gentleman Jerry and I had lunch at Shanghai Dumplings Fusion, 158 West 72nd Street, a place that I found only satisfactory in the past. Today, the tide shifted, permanently I hope. Everything we ordered was very good. We had chicken soup dumplings ($11.95 for 5); scallion pancake with beef, really good ($9.95); Shanghai Combination Stir-fried Noodles, lo mein in a thick brown sauce ($16.95). With a couple of Diet Cokes, we unintentionally exceeded $39.95 and got a plate of just ordinary orange chicken as a bonus.

 

Tuesday, March 3, 2026
Absolute Bagels, 2788 Broadway, between West 107 & West 108 Streets, usually was at the top of the best bagels list. However, they were closed down once their secret ingredient was discovered — vermin. The business changed hands and was renamed New Absolute Bagels. The old owner objected and now it is simply 2788 Bagels.
 
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
This illustration speaks for itself, but its collateral message is trouble for Democratic presidential candidates with the growth of Texas and Florida and the decline of New York and California.

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In case we had a little time on our hands. “U.S. Opens Military Action in Ecuador Against ‘Terrorist Organizations’” https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/03/us/politics/us-ecuador-trump-military-operations.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share

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In print, the headline reads: “Initiating War Is a Risk to the Legacy of President Trump” https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/02/us/politics/iran-trump-polls-republicans.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share

 It definitely evoked a chuckle. Legacy? What legacy? Winner of a secondhand Nobel Peace Prize? Convicted felon? Serial bankrupter? Draft dodger? Twice impeached? Sexual predator? 

 
Thursday, March 5, 2026
It was a simple choice: Two friends vs. One wife. Stony Brook Steve, Terrific Tom and I planned to have lunch today. However, with the rain unceasing, I could not abide my young bride schlepping up to the Bronx on the subway. I had to rev up the Gottmobile to shelter her from the storm. Sorry fellas.

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Is a bánh mizza an Indochinese rite of passage ceremony for adolescent boys? No, it is a cross between a pizza and a bánh mi, the traditional Vietnamese hero sandwich. Completely unknown to me until today (reading about it, not eating it), it actually has been around for at least 11 years. https://youtu.be/xC4LxvxahUI

 
Friday, March 5, 2026  
Eleanor the Great (2025) is a movie about a woman who gains renown when she co-opts the Holocaust memories of a deceased friend. This fiction about a fiction is being approximated in real life in court at present. A wealthy and well-connected woman published a memoir about being sexually abused as a schoolgirl. The alleged abuser, whose identity was discernible, is not the one charging the author for invasion of privacy. Rather, a classmate of the author claims the events described in the best-selling (ghost-written) work actually occurred to her not the author. https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/05/nyregion/amy-griffin-the-tell-lawsuit.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share 

Assuming the truth of the plaintiff’s claim, the hijacking of events, was this a crime or a tort (civil wrong) or a wrong without a remedy? I hope that Irwin, Nicky, Ronnie or other legal eagles offer a judgment. Meanwhile, my opinion is that the harm, if any, was to the publisher and the public who were literally sold a false bill of goods.