Friday, September 15, 2023

Gut Shabbos, Shabbat Shalom, Gut Yontif, L’Shanah Tovah and/or Feliz Año Nuevo

Saturday, September 9, 2023
Many of us were already in and out of college when Pell Grants were introduced in the 1973-1974 school year.  They are awarded to undergraduate students based on “exceptional need.”  The maximum amount today is $7,395 which will cover tuition and fees at the City University of New York, living costs extra.  https://www.cuny.edu/financial-aid/tuition-and-college-costs/comparing-college-costs/

By comparison, the average Ivy League tuition and fees is $59,961, making a Pell Grant close to a rounding error.   https://www.collegetuitioncompare.com/best-schools/ivy-league/

In any case, Pell Grants are firmly embedded in the college financial picture.  The New York Times compiled a list of their utilization at 283 colleges, ranging from 8% to 94% of students, the median appearing to be 21%.  
 
The smaller the Pell Grant population, the less economically diverse a campus is considered.  Speaking of diversity, "[t]here are close to three women for every two men in college in this country. . . . Last year, women edged out men in the freshman classes of every Ivy League school save Dartmouth, and the gender ratio is significantly skewed at many state schools."    https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=highlightShare

Sunday, September 10, 2023

Ben's Kosher Delicatessen Restaurant, 209 West 38th Street, a reliable stop on the way to Madison Square Garden, has been taken over by Mr. Broadway, 1372 Broadway, a glatt Kosher restaurant around the corner.  Glatt may be a new word in your vocabulary; it means smooth in Yiddish.  What it represents, though, is a level of purity beyond the already baroque Kosher rules detailed in the Torah.  https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/113425/jewish/What-Is-Kosher.htm

An immediate difference in the operation of what was Ben's is the curbing of hours.  For centuries, clever Jews worked around the limitations on Sabbath activities, until some very observant Jews plugged key loopholes.  Now, the restaurant will be closed from Friday afternoon to Saturday evening.  More critical is my guaranteed observation that glatt food loses flavor as it reaches its sanctified position.  I may be unfair, but I believe that taste is sacrificed for holiness. 
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This article contains a lot of interesting factoids.

Two-thirds of Americans own their own home and stay in their homes an average of 13.2 years.  Countrywide, purchasing and maintaining a home for that period costs $623,290.  Most expensive locations are Hawaii, District of Columbia and California, each exceeding $1 million.  At the other end are West Virginia, Mississippi and Oklahoma under $400,000.  As they say, “You get what you pay for.”

Monday, September 11, 2023
I was living in midtown Manhattan on 911 and have vivid memories of the day and its aftermath.  However, this short documentary tells a story that I knew nothing about.  

Remarkably, this operation exceeded Dunkirk in size and took just hours, not days.  

While it would be impossible to quantify, the fear surrounding both ventures could have been immobilizing, but courage/stubbornness/resilience/daring prevailed.
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Stony Brook Steve and I went to lunch at Malachy's Irish Pub, 103 West 72nd Street, the first visit by both of us.  It was founded by Malachy McCourt, brother to Frank McCourt, author of that exceptional memoir "Angela's Ashes."  Malachy himself was described by the New York Times as "part of a lineage that includes Jimmy Breslin and Pete Hamill, bar-stool champions of the little guy and dispensers of hard-earned wisdom."  

Malachy is in his 90s and was kicked out of hospice late last year for surviving.  He is no longer part of the business, which now stands as a typical Irish pub, occupied more likely by beer drinkers than gourmands, although, upon exiting, we ran right into Barbara O., a stylish, sophisticated woman of my long acquaintance, who raved about Malachy's food.

I had a good Cajun chicken sandwich, blackened chicken on a six inch roll, with Cajun seasonings, pepper jack cheese and horseradish sauce, French fries on the side ($15).  Steve had a sweet Italian sausage wrap, with green peppers and sauteed onions, French fries on the side ($13).  In the face of a long bar and eight beers on draft, we were nevertheless abstentious.    

Tuesday, September 12, 2023
You are the largest country in the world with the second largest economy.  Don’t you have better things to do than “proposing amendments to a law that could result in detention and fines for ‘wearing clothing or bearing symbols in public that are detrimental to the spirit of the Chinese people and hurt the feelings of Chinese people’?”

Why not just stick to banning “anything that discusses privilege or oppression based on race, or whether someone ‘bears personal responsibility for and must feel guilt, anguish, or other forms of psychological distress’ due to U.S. racial history?”  

Wednesday, September 13,2023
“Children from families in the top 1% are more than twice as likely to attend an Ivy-Plus college (Ivy League, Stanford, MIT, Duke, and Chicago) as those from middle-class families with comparable SAT/ACT scores. . . . The high- income admissions advantage at private colleges is driven by three factors: (1) preferences for children of alumni, (2) weight placed on non-academic credentials, which tend to be stronger for students applying from private high schools that have affluent student bodies, and (3) recruitment of athletes, who tend to come from higher-income families.” 

Thursday, September 14, 2023
Automobile travel in the USA declined in 2020, the first year of the plague, from 2019 by almost 4.302 billion miles, 13.2% .  https://www.fhwa.dot.gov/policyinformation/travel_monitoring/20dectvt/20dectvt.pdf

Yet, with only Switzerland (5%) and Ireland (2%), road deaths increased here (5%), while they decreased in every other developed nation, by 3% in Finland to 27% in Italy. 

Why?

Friday, September 15, 2023
5784 begins at sundown and I will be joining my tribe for the associated rituals lasting through the weekend.  That’s why I am bothering you late Friday afternoon rather than early Saturday morning.  
 
שנה אזרחית טובה
 
 

Saturday, September 9, 2023

Celebrations Now and Then

Saturday, September 2, 2023  
I’ve been to innumerable Jewish synagogue services over the centuries.  Usually, I come away with a list of dislikes.  Last night’s service at Temple Israel Natick, part of the weekend’s celebration of grandson Noam’s Bar Mitzvah, left me with a strong positive — Rabbi Raysh Weiss, new to the congregation.  Previously, in conjunction with her husband, Rabbi Jonah Rank, she served at a synagogue in Halifax, Nova Scotia, where the lox comes from.  Originally from Skokie, Illinois, he from Livingston, New Jersey, they spent three years in an area that was well less than 1% Jewish.  That had to be a considerable challenge to their rabbinic skill set.  To my mind, they came through it with their spiritual values and sense of humor intact.
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If I were a Republican, I would never apologize, but I’m not, so I will.  Last week, I intended to punctuate my comment on attending the March on Washington 60 years ago with this photograph taken there by a reporter from the Ithaca Journal.  Technical problems intervened, which I could have avoided.  So, 60 years and one week later, here I am.
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Back to synagogue this morning, where Noam chanted prayers and read Torah in flawless Hebrew, loudly and clearly.  The entire second and third generations participated actively as well, with the added bonus of the matriarch chanting a section of the Torah reading.  In all, the day was a huge success.

Sunday, September 3, 2023
A phrase that you don't hear much anymore is "Two can live as cheaply as one."  This study shows how cheaply one can live as one.  https://www.gobankingrates.com/money/making-money/living-wage-single-person-needs-all-50-states/

And, it seems that in some places it might take two to earn enough for one.  For instance, a living wage in Hawaii amounts to $112,411, that is to "pay for necessities and a few nice-to-have purchases, and stash money into savings."  On the other hand, $45,906 is a living wage in Mississippi, if you call that living.  50 weeks at 40 hours each would require an hourly wage of $22.95 there, while Mississippi's minimum wage is $7.25.  That leaves an annual shortfall of $31,400 in order to enjoy the Magnolia State.
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We parted from children, grandchildren, brother and sister-in-law, nieces and nephews, machatunim (ask Stony Brook Steve to explain), ex-relatives, friends and acquaintances for a pleasant drive home.
 
Monday, September 3, 2023
If you're a neat freak, you'll pay attention to this "analysis of 12.3 million sanitation-related 311 complaints placed over the last 365 days to reveal the dirtiest cities in America."

While Baltimore takes the schmutzig award, I'm quite surprised that the Holy Land only ranks 17th.  Even to my overly myopic eyes, things are hardly neat and clean around here and my fellow citizens are not the type to remain stumm in the face of unpleasant conditions.    

Tuesday, September 4, 2023
The wit and wisdom of Justice Clarence Thomas.  "Thomas also acknowledged he’d 'inadvertently omitted' bank accounts now valued at more than $100,000 from his annual financial disclosures dating back to 2017, due to what he called 'a misinterpretation of the rules.'"  

Wednesday, September 5, 2023
The Boyz Club changed direction today and went uptown to lunch at Moon Kee, 2642 Broadway (100th Street), the local branch of a successful Hong Kong operation.  Except, it hasn't opened yet, we discovered as we stood on the hot sidewalk at midday.  Fortunately, there was a nearby alternative, Dim Sum Bloom, 2596 Broadway, the origin of the name somewhat a mystery.  Unlike the typical neighborhood Chinese restaurant, it offers an extensive choice of dim sum.  In fact, it has two groups of lunch specials, 19 regular dishes with choice of soup and side dish (spring roll, edamame or kim chee) ($14.95-16.95) or any three dim sum plus soup ($14.95), a big bargain considering that the 28 dim sum items cost $9.95 or more individually.  

Our ordering turned out to be a bit chaotic, some choosing regular entrees, some picking dim sum, resulting in an uneven flow of food over a 20 minute period.  We started in an orderly fashion, two orders of Cold Noodle with Sesame Paste for the five of us ($11.95 each), nothing special.  With the random arrival of food, I had some of mine, some of his, duck dumpling, shrimp dumpling, Jing Chong Baked Vegetable Bun, truffle shrimp shumai, honey roast pork bun, scallion pancake, vegetable dumpling, all good when they eventually hit the table.
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Mammas, Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Lawyers.  In the FTX bankruptcy proceeding, Sullivan & Cromwell is charging up to $595 for paralegals and $2,165 for partners.  https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/05/technology/crypto-collapse-lawyers-turnaround-specialists.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=highlightShare

Thursday, September 6, 2023
Thinking about it, those Sullivan & Cromwell lawyers must be awfully good.  Imagine what they could accomplish for Tennessee’s Indigent Defense Fund.  

They would have to work fast though, because they would reach the statutory billing rate in under 84 seconds.


Saturday, September 2, 2023

Still Only A Dream

Saturday, August 26, 2023
I spoke at synagogue services today, my remarks based crudely on this week’s Torah portion.  What I focused upon were certain directives that seemed to have no practical basis, but would distinguish Jews/Hebrews/Israelites from the general population.  For instance, “You shall not wear clothes woven with two kinds of yarn, wool and flax together.”  This is called shatnes, falling into a category known as chookim (like hookah), laws that cannot be explained.  They are considered pure tests of faith (or possibly gullibility).  They are also another way that conventional Judaism tries to separate Us from Them.    

I believe that Us has fascinated Them for 2,000 years, during which Them has converted Us, killed Us, exiled Us.  Yet, Us has failed to capitalize on this obsession.  Rather then tell Them, “Come and experience the allure,” Us has raised barriers to entry.  I would instead like to see more of Us, open minded, tolerant, hospitable Us.  Let’s open the doors to Them.

Sunday, August 27, 2023
According to the American Library Association, attempts to ban books are at a record high.  https://cnn.it/3sq24Z3
 
Imagine if we were not the Land of the Free and Home of the Brave.
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With very high home mortgage rates, now apparently is not the time to expect your monthly rent to elevate you into home ownership.  In 63 of the 100 largest real estate markets, the average rent would not meet the monthly mortgage payment on a house of more than 1,000 square feet.  https://www.point2homes.com/news/us-real-estate-news/how-much-space-the-average-rent-buys-in-100-cities.html

By comparison, the average new home sold in the United States today is a relatively cavernous 2,559 square feet.  https://www.lendingtree.com/home/mortgage/home-sizes-study/   

Monday, August 28, 2023
I marched on Washington 60 years ago today. 

Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Arthur Dobrin, who has been part of my life since Pitkin Avenue, has produced more than 20 books, prose, poetry, fact, fiction.  “Westbury Imagined: Based on True Stories,” his latest, has just come out.  It covers first encounters between Indigenous people and Europeans, the enslavement of Africans and their fight for freedom, fox hunting millionaires and Italian immigrants, all in the context of a suburban community.  It’s in paperback and on Kindle.
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I had no hesitation agreeing to my young bride’s suggestion that we indulge in the Tuesday Special at Pastrami Queen, 136 West 72nd Street, for dinner.  As you are no doubt aware, this entails a pastrami sandwich and a corned beef sandwich on dinner rolls, with French fries, coleslaw and pickles, for $19.95.

Wednesday, August 30, 2023
The most recent New York edition of the Michelin guide awarded stars to nine modern Korean restaurants.  By comparison, the guide gave no stars to any Chinese restaurant.  Do you think that it's because they are Communists?
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Within a few days, President Biden has had to face two major environmental disasters -- the fires on Maui and Hurricane Idalia -- and has failed to demonstrate the leadership to which we have become accustomed.  He has yet to throw out paper towels to any victims.  

Thursday, August 31, 2023
The Upper West Side’s Power Couple left town to spend the weekend celebrating #2 grandson’s Bar Mitzvah.  Adding to our delight was the presence of family from near and far to participate in this event that reaches back through centuries.

Several of us had dinner at Legal Sea Foods, 50-60 Worcester Road, Framingham, one location of that successful Boston-centric chain.  I first ate at their downtown site on a business trip to Boston in the mid-1980s and I still remember what I had.  The delicious smoked bluefish pate is no longer on the menu, but our waiter said it is due to return.  The fish and chips remains a constant, the quality high, but the portion small for the money ($28).  In fact,  generally everything was expensive.

I didn’t go away hungry however, sharing appetizers, drinking a bottle of Angry Orchard hard cider ($8.50) and several glasses of Vealands Marlborough Sauvignon Blanc ($52 a bottle).  In fact, I passed on dessert which is okay because Legal Sea Foods has never again had the fabulous fig newton ice cream that I had way back then.  I keep asking.

Friday, September 1, 2023
Good News -- The Washington Post has a comprehensive look at pizza across the country.   

Bad News -- You have to be a subscriber.
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J&M Diner, 50 Worcester Road, Framingham sits right behind Legal Sea Foods, a pleasant walk from our not-so-pleasant hotel.  It is a first-rate breakfast joint offering almost every conceivable version of eggs, pancakes, waffles and the like.  I had one blueberry pancake, not out of modesty, but heeding the caution of the server regarding the size, about 10" diameter ($6.50).  Enough was enough.
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Bar Mitzvah events begin tonight with services at Temple Israel Natick, followed by a festive dinner.  We will resume reporting in our next episode.