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Monday, December 24, 2018
Note to Grandpa Alan: The world is a very crowded place, which guarantees the appearance of almost every conceivable brand of nutsiness and craziness.  However, a few items that I noticed recently show a disturbing similarity.  

First, we have the first black woman to serve as American University’s student body president successfully suing several on-line harassers.  One of the bullies has agreed to apologize, renounce white supremacy, undergo counseling and help civil rights groups fight hate and bigotry.  He is currently 22-years old.
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/21/us/american-university-racist-hate-training.html

Then, we have a couple who named their child after Adolf Hitler, who have been sentenced to more than 10 years in prison after they were convicted of being members of a banned neo-Nazi group that had sought to start a race war in Britain.  Pop is 22, Mom is 38.
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/20/world/europe/uk-neo-nazi-national-action.html

Finally, we have the matter of a male college baseball player tweeting about Little League World Series star Mo'ne Davis, an African-American, the first girl to earn a win and to pitch a shutout in Little League World Series history.  Her singular accomplishment earned her the title of "slut" from this college junior.
http://www.philly.com/philly/blogs/pattisonave/Bloomsburg-baseball-player-booted-for-offensive-Mone-Davis-tweet.html

Aren't our bigots supposed to be grizzled old men needing dental work?  Shouldn't our young people, benefiting from modern education and creature comforts, be tolerant, accepting and understanding of differences?  Or, should we scrap the idea that the the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice, a phrase associated with Martin Luther King, Jr., and instead simply substitute hard work, because we are the only ones responsible for our fate?
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The Sunday real estate section has an interesting compilation of interurban movement under the headline "Which Cities Are People Leaving --- and Where Are They Going?"  https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/20/realestate/which-cities-are-people-leaving-and-where-are-they-going.html
In sum, people are leaving expensive cities for less expensive cities.  Outflow is greatest from San Francisco, New York and Los Angeles, while inflow is greatest to Sacramento, Atlanta and Phoenix.  If only we could choose which of our neighbors should be on the next bus leaving town.
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Not everyone is moving, as I noted last week.  Rather, we have developed a breed of stay-at-homes who curse their fate, curse their benefactor and support policies that (and policy makers who) make their lives (and ours) more difficult.  https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/21/business/economy/harlan-county-republican-welfare.html
(Discuss.  Write on one side of the paper in pen only.  20 minutes.)
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Last week, I also mentioned race-blind theatrical casting in a somewhat dismissive fashion, which does not befit the complexity or seriousness of the issue.  Actors chose what seems to be a rotten career, if measured in terms of conventional success -- money, status, security.  One source reports that the 63,800 employed actors have a median hourly wage of $18.70, the lowest 10% earned less than $9.39, and the highest 10% earned more than $100.00.  https://collegegrad.com/careers/actors#outlook

I am unable to find a count of self-identified actors or what percentage of the whole are working as actors.  Anecdotal evidence leads one to believe that actors/waiters/Uber drivers have concatenated into one job category.  There is authoritative data on black vs. white unemployment, however, roughly twice the former to the latter, even as both approach record lows.  https://www.bls.gov/web/empsit/cpsee_e16.htm

So, who should be cast as the friendly folks next door on the new situation comedy that I am unlikely to watch?  Were we a race-blind society, it wouldn't matter.  But, race-blind is not the American way and, in the past, was often considered quite un-American.  When Chief Justice John Roberts stated that “[t]he way to stop discrimination on the basis of race is to stop discrimination on the basis of race,” he seems to have forgotten most of what he learned as a history major at Harvard.  Parents Involved in Community Schools v. Seattle School District No. 1, 551 US 701 (2007). 

It is the burden of history that bends our view of race in America as a prism bends white light into its component colors.  Should what we see on the stage or screen mirror our "normal" experiences or expectations, probably monochromatic couples and families?  I find a parallel with our historic immigration policy.  The Immigration Act of 1924 enshrined the National Origins Formula, introduced during WWI, which established immigration quotas on the basis of preexisting proportions of the population, the goal to preserve the Protestant, Northwestern European ethnic character of the country.  For the majority of Americans subsequently (not living in the immediate vicinity of 13 Essex Street), their new neighbors looked, acted, spoke and worshiped very much as they did.  

How far removed may our culture be from our daily lives?  "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner" was released in 1967, almost simultaneous with the United States Supreme Court decision in Loving v. Virginia, 388 US 1 (1967), striking down all state laws banning interracial marriage.  So, I have no conclusion.  The logical part of me reaches for a formula -- Jackie Robinson was black and Harry Truman was white and they should be portrayed as such.  But, what of Oscar and Felix, Cagney and Lacey, Batman and Robin, Amos and Andy (!!), Archie and Veronica?

Tuesday, December 25, 2018
We spent the last two days visiting the second and third generations in Massachusetts, returning today with #2 grandson in tow.  What I learned on the ride home is that the owners of roadside diners of Connecticut are either more devout or kinder to their employees than I imagined.  Not a one was open as we sought a lunch break.  Even the large Blue Colony Diner, Newtown, exit 10 on I-84, usually open 24/7, was closed.  I wasn't the only one surprised by this; while we sat in the parking lot considering non-existent alternatives, car after car pulled in seeking sustenance.  Had I known this, I might have set up a charcoal grill with hot dogs and hamburgers to offer a quick fix.

Instead, we pushed on to the Holy Land, very hungry when we arrived at 3 PM.  Choosing between Chinatown and Curry Hill as likely havens for heathens, we went to DB Dhaba, 108 Lexington Avenue, a reliable favorite for Indian food, and found that South Asians are as likely as Jews to go out to eat on Christmas Day.  A good time was had by all, especially our 8-year old guest, who ate his Chole Punjabi (curried chickpeas), Basmati rice and 4 pieces of naan as if he were auditioning for a remake of "Gunga Din."  For another perspective on this general topic, read "Nothing Is More American Than Chinese Food on Christmas."    https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/25/opinion/christmas-chinese-food.html

Wednesday, December 26, 2018
In high grandparent-entertaining-mode, we took our Harry Potter-obsessed guest to the very impressive Harry Potter exhibit at the New-York Historical Society.  Even with his expert guidance and insights, it was all Hogwarts to me. 
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I've tried to avoid year-end best-of lists, which are designed to embarrass us ordinary folks without a lot of time on our hands to sample the culinary/cultural/cocktail landscape, but I'll share the Best Crime Novels of 2018.  
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/21/books/review/best-crime-fiction.html

Friday, December 28, 2018
The New York Times offers a not-entirely sorrowful look at those we have lost this year.   
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/26/obituaries/deaths-in-2018.html 

In addition, Amos Oz, one of Israel greatest writers, died this morning.  He wrote: "I like being Israeli. I like being a citizen of a country where there are eight and a half million prime ministers, eight and a half million prophets, eight and a half million messiahs. Each of us has our own personal formula for redemption, or at least for a solution. Everyone shouts, and few listen. It’s never boring here."

We should also mourn the intangibles, the values, standards, dignity and honor that have been washed away in the acid bath of the present administration.  Admittedly, they were hard to achieve and nearly impossible to maintain day-to-day, but most of us, regardless of other differences, recognized their importance to our society. 

This afternoon, I received a little boost of encouragement.  Shopping at Fairway Market, 2127 Broadway, I rounded a corner and ran into Jerrold Nadler, Democratic Congressman from this district, the next chair of the House Judiciary Committee.  Jerry, who went to Stuyvesant High School before settling for Columbia University instead of CCNY, knows how to spell subpoena, but this afternoon he was shopping at Fairway, as I have seen him do many times in the past.  Standing patiently in line, just like you and me, insulting no one.  He was accompanied by a tall, silent, broad-shouldered man who did not seem to be scanning the shelves for a bargain.






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